When i was a young teen, my Grandma took me to see my Alzheimers riddled Great-Gran at a care home. Well my Grandma kept telling me about this parrot they had there that one of the elderly men had had … Continue reading
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My Childhood Lovelife
I saw a young kid chatting up a girl and thought to myself that reminds me of when i was a young boy… Except the girl was imaginary, i never left the house and i wore a bright orange Donnay … Continue reading
How Self Help Damages Your Mental Health
Self Help Is Capitalist Propaganda Self help and personal development are great… for a specific set of people. First you need to understand that most self help material advocates capitalism. Capitalism is a Utopian vision. One of ideals of this … Continue reading
Proof Social Anxiety Can Be Conquered
Who the hell is Andy Kaufman?
Unless you are American and watched TV in the 1970s or have seen the film Man on the Moon with Jim Carrey, it’s unlikely you would’ve heard of him.
He was famous for bringing an unwavering dedication to playing a character to the point where the public never knew whether he was in character or actually being serious. His specialty was fucking with people and making people feel some kind of emotion (usually cringe-worthy awkwardness). Sounds like generic comedy now-a-days, but no one had ever seen anything like it back then.
Without this guy it’s unlikely comedy would be the same today. There would be no Ricky Gervais, Steve Coogan or Sasha Baron Cohen. In fact there would be no point in living.
Why have i written an article sucking him off?
He suffered from social anxiety.
Not only was he able to perform on stage, but he did things not even confident comedians were prepared to do. He took no medication and didn’t go through any therapy. Meditation was his medicine.
The main fear of the socially anxious is saying something bad and then being rejected by society, left to fend for yourself in the wild, likely leading to your own death. Andy was able to face his fears and do socially risky things. He never got rejected by society or died. Apart from when he died in 1984 at the age of 35.
My point is he didn’t let his anxieties interfere with what he wanted to do. Okay!
The Real Dangers of Social Anxiety
When I was at secondary school I went through a period of agoraphobia especially fearing open spaces. To combat this I used to walk with my head facing directly down at the floor and I used to stick to edges … Continue reading
Typical Day of an Unemployed Social Phobic
This is a run down of a normal day for me: 1. I wake up around 12-3pm and instantly want to go back to sleep because whatever i was dreaming about was definitely better than real life. 2. I then … Continue reading
10 Things Only Social Anxiety Sufferers Understand
1. Saying “No” to someone’s face isn’t in our vocabulary “Do you want to come out tonight?” Errrr ok “Can you cover my shift tomorrow?” I’m getting married tomorr….. “Please! It’s really important.” Ok then “I’m going through a gambling crisis. … Continue reading
Social Anxiety isn’t a Disease it’s a Symptom
I know this is a video about depression but it also applies to anxiety, especially social. Social anxiety and depression is not a disease, it is the symptom of living in an unhealthy environment. Not enough sunlight, poor diets and … Continue reading
Apply for Jobs or Buy Lottery Tickets?
So it’s really difficult as a twenty-something year old trying to get a job in the never ending credit crunching recession bollocks which will now be the norm of western society, but if you’re socially anxious you are twice as … Continue reading
I’m Retiring From Blogging
When you got to go, you’ve got to go. I’ve been seized by the urge to write.
I’ve given up making this blog at least 5 times today already. To begin with my 1st choice of blog name was taken (ihatepeople.com), then i had to decide whether to pay for a website or do it free. Easy decision really, it costs like £100 and im unemployed and have no money. Then i realized i couldn’t customize everything i wanted, i couldn’t place things where i wanted, i couldn’t mould things into the vision of a website i may have in the future and just started randomly clicking on shit because i had no idea what i was doing. I can’t get it perfect so fuck it, i’m giving up. Bye.